Happiness Vs Misery

                Happiness Versus Misery

                Siti Nurhaliza, a famous, beautiful, talented and sensational singer

(She is said to be),

is just too sensational to be true.

                Her greatest sensation, perhaps, is her triumph over Datuk Khalid

from his first wife, 20 years’ bond of marriage.

                Datuk K, no doubt, falls in love head over heel and heel over head for her

                His love for her is indeed big, so much bigger than that

for his first wife and 4 children adding up

                Her sensation, indeed, is so powerful that

she is able to break up the stronghold of 20 years’ bond of marriage

of Datuk K to his first wife and detach him from his 4 children.

                It’s sheer plundering done in the sheath of civilised manners

                It is again a young lady fall victim

to the wealth and social status of a man

                It is again another version how a young and beautiful woman

won the game so called “Love”: 

someone’s else’s husband and the children’s father

                You may see Siti, famous, beautiful, talented and sensational,

                But these qualities are crystallised

in the words called “plundering” and “lust”.

                She is but a highway robber.

                She is a curse to Datuk K’s first wife, Tengku Zawyah and his 4 children.

                It is rending pain to Datuk K’s first wife,

Tengku Zawyah to lose her husband

                It is excruciating pain to the children for losing the father.

                It is frustrating and embarrassing to see your father

marrying to a young and sensational lady.

                It is heart-breaking  to see the vow of marriage

of your ex-husband to another lady to be “everlasting”

                As a husband, he is supposed to be beside his wife

whenever he can in the  cultivation of the children

                but he chooses to flirt with a young sensational songbird

                As a father, he is supposed to be ever-ready

to guide and set good example to his children

                but he chooses to dally with the young and sensational songbird

                Siti Nurhaliza’s marriage to Datuk K was broadcast in TV3

                They chose to keep their marriage in high profile.

                They, indeed, had a good display to showcase of their marriage.

                Siti, no doubt, beam with happiness, with so much to show off.

                However, it is hard for mature adults

not to associate the thoughts of the conditions

of Datuk K’s first wife, Tengku Zawyah and their 4 children

                Unfortunately, Siti’s happiness is always accompanied

by another woman’s misery and the 4 children’s sense of loss.

        Siti’s marriage to Datuk has been so rationalised and justified

                University Kebangsaan Malaysia’s broadcasting and mass communication

                lecturer Prof Madya Dr Asiah Sarji said, “Siti has certain values that………”

(The Borneo Post, “Whole nation’s abuzz as Siti’s wedding draws near”

Sunday, August 20, 2006)

                (I really can see any positive value in this union but lust and indulgence.)

                Siti, certainly, has all the commercial value to TV3

                It is disgusting and disheartening to see that

glorification of one famous, sensational singer can come to this extent

                It is just too commercialised to be real

                It is but the union of “lust” and ”indulgence”.

                The lady gets hooked to wealth and social rank

                The man abandons himself to sensation and immediate gratification                  

                It is so ridiculous to see such a show of union

with the man vowing everlasting love

                   when he broke the vow of marriage

to his first wife of 20 years’ bond of marriage not long ago

                It is as absurd to their children to witness their father’s pledge

his everlasting love for another woman.

                It is very selfish and senseless show-off

without consideration of the feelings

of Datuk K’s first wife, Tengku Zawyah and the 4 children              

                It is over enactment of self-glorification

                It is very cruel and irresponsible acts.          

                No second wife in Asia as far as I know, 

can afford to make such a big show of her marriage

                I think we all need to relearn the virtue called “shame”

so that we know how to distinguish “shame” from “shameless”

                so that we see the beautiful side and we also know the ugly side

                We all should learn to see how Siti broke up a family

                We all should learn to hear the groan of pain and hurt

of Datuk K’s first wife, Tengku Zawyah and the 4 children

                We all should feel how miserable and depressed

Datuk K’s first wife, Tengku Zawyah and 4 children can be

                We all should also learn to distinguish fragrant smell

from stinking rotten smell

                Arh…………………………………………………………………………